Why do I keep attracting the same kind of man?

Why do I keep attracting the same kind of man?

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This is a very common question among women. Most women find themselves attracting the same kind of men, that is, men with similar characters. So, what is the problem with attracting the same kind of man? Well, there is no problem at all. The problem comes in when the kind of men you are attracting are not the kind you want to attract. Attracting men with the same qualities that you don’t like over and over again can prove to be a rather stressful situation. How can you change this?

Make a self-assessment
The question may not be much about you attracting the same kind of men but rather that you are the one attracted to that kind of men. This is a highly likely situation. Dig deep into your emotions and see what makes you settle for these men in the first place. You will realize that it is more or less the same qualities. List down these qualities and try to ignore them the next time you go man-hunting.

Know the kind of man you want
Take a piece of paper or your laptop and write down the qualities of the man you would want in your life. On another page, write a list of the men you have ever been in a relationship with and identify their good and bad qualities. Compare the qualities of these men with the qualities you want in your man. You will notice that a good number of them do not possess the qualities that you want. Therefore, when you meet a man with the same characteristics with one of those men you do not want to attract, flee for your life.

Try out your luck
With all these things in mind, you can now go out and try to attract a different kind of man this time. Remember, it is all about you. Keep your act together and think straight. Don’t be driven by emotions, think first before you act.